It is no secret that church attendance is dwindling. Compared
to the church of yesterday we are seeing less people attend than I can
remember. Growth churches do experience usually come from those who have moved from
another church, not from new converts. This problem is across denominations. And
churches are dying as a result. Thom Rainer, President and CEO of Lifeway,
researched churches that died and wrote a helpful book discussing his results titled,
“Autopsy of a Deceased Church: 12 Ways to Keep Yours Alive.”
Without delving into each of the twelve areas he addresses,
I want to write about a few that spoke most to me. The first being that the
erosion happens slowly. As with all areas of life, most decay happens slowly,
and typically goes unnoticed. Common areas of dying churches where slow decline
occurred in the prayer lives of its members, a lack of focus, no hopes and dreams
of the members, and a loss of connection to the community the church is part of.
The next cause of death in the churches Rainer analyzed that
I will mention is that these churches had their past as their hero. They kept
pointing to and standing on how things used to be and fighting for the church
to get back to that way of life. What areas of the past were they clinging on
to? The areas that focused on their own needs and not the needs of others. They
became self-focused instead of outward-focused.
Thirdly, the budget moved inwardly. The main area was with
pastoral ministry. The church “pays the pastor to visit” people and they will keep
paying him to do so as long as they don’t have to. The result is that the laity
forget that the Great Commission is for them also, not just the pastor. One
person can’t do it all, yet these churches expect the pastor to because they
pay him to do it.
Another aspect of the finances of dying churches is that they
accumulated large savings accounts for a “rainy day” while neglecting to meet
the needs of their members. People were hurting and in need while the church’s
bank account grew. It isn’t difficult to see why this would cause a church to
slowly die away.
A natural flow from finances is that these churches lost
focus on what it means to be a Great Commission church. All moneys and programs
were inwardly focused. They chose comfort over reaching the lost. And when new
people visited they were only welcomed if they were like members of the church
and wanted to do church their way. Rainer says it this way, “Members of dying
churches really didn’t want growth unless the growth met their preferences and
allowed them to remain comfortable.” Comfort is one of the main idols in the
American church today.
The fifth reason why these churches died that stood out to
me is that these churches were preference-driven. They wanted music their way.
Programs their way. Carpet color their way. Building design their way. Ministers
ministering their way. Rainer put it this way, “My, my, my.” Like in life when
someone won’t budge you typically don’t want anything to do with what they are
selling.
Rainer also noticed that the closer to death these churches
got the, “intensity of their arguments and demands for their preferences grew.”
In other words, they dug in their heels.
Another symptom of dying churches is that they rarely prayed
together. Not just prayer but meaningful prayer. Most churches use prayer to
bookend the service when all that she does should be covered in prayer. Prayer
isn’t a last resort it is a first priority.
These churches also had no clear purpose. People got into
ruts. Doing things just to do them. They couldn’t explain why they had their
programs other than that is the way it has always been done so we keep on doing
it that way.
The last area I want to mention is that these dying churches
became obsessed over facilities. Should churches be beautiful? Of course. But
to be obsessed over them when discipleship is non-existent, when people are
hurting and are left to suffer, isn’t what the church should be about. And she
will die if she doesn’t change course.
There were other causes of church death that Rainer mentions
that I didn’t discuss here but are just as problematic.
If you are in church leadership I would consider this book a
must. If you are “just” a member I would read this book and do your part to keep
the heartbeat of the church pumping. We all play a part in keeping the church
vital and alive. We all also can play a part in causing her death. Which do you
choose?
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